Firstly, only married players can do this quest and it has to be done with your married partner. Breaking the squad will fail the quest. Death seems to have no effect so don't worry if you die on the harder tasks.
Inviting others to squad or changing squad lead will also fail the quest. They are working on a fix for DCing, much like a dungeon where you have a minute to reconnect.
The tasks themselves can vary from insanely easy to annoyingly hard. It depends on your squad setup. This was written using a 78 Cleric / 79 Wizard combo.

The Quest starts with the couple forming a squad with either as squad leader. The leader then collects the quest from the Matchmaker Servant (523, 655) in Archosour West District while the other is nearby. Basically, any time you talk to an NPC during the marriage quests, make sure your partner is within sight.
Only the squad leader needs to talk to the matchmaker servant but BOTH must talk to each NPC thereafter.
The possible quests you may recieve are listed below.

The rewards for the quests vary, much like the crazy stone, but as an example, at level 78 I recieved 224,910 Xp and 55,080 Sp.
You will also recieve 1 Sweet Memory and 1 Sincerity Pack.
-The The Sweet Memory is collected and 100/200/300 are traded for rings from the Matchmakers Servant.
-The Sincerity pack has a small chance to contain an all class pet like a baby bulbfish or baby crab (Non-tradable), but most of the time you recieve a mirage celestone.

1. Speak to Lonely Widow (580, 815) West of the lake by Tomb of the Shining Tide
- Kill Chinling Governor (595, 812) on the East side of the lake.
80000HP Miniboss - He wonders around and is surrounded by Grudging Soldiers (20000HP minibosses). There's a gap by the withered treestump at (592, 810)
No matter 3-4 Soldiers are summoned. You also get a nasty mana burn debuff on you. The summoned adds die when the main boss dies.
Easy Method: Go point blank. Chinling does a fair magic attack but only does 1hp melee damage. Ignore the adds if you have a cleric.
2. Report to Lonely Widow (580, 815) West of the lake by Tomb of the Shining Tide
- 1 Sweet memory
- 1 Sincerity Pack
-Reward (Exp: Varies SP: Varies)

1. Speak to Tessa (686, 695) Nameless Isle
- Kill 1 Giantfang Spider (Giantfang Spider will appear after you kill about 4 Lesser Spiders on the island to the SE)
Giantfang has 80000 Hp and does a stacking poison damage. Also has a short debuff so expect a little fight. The Lesser spiders only have 20000 Hp but their poison can catch you unawares
Easy Method: Go point blank. Giantfang does a fair magic attack but only does 1hp melee damage.
2. Report to Leon (688, 690) Nameless Isle
- 1 Sweet memory
- 1 Sincerity Pack
-Reward (Exp: Varies SP: Varies)

1. Speak to Cho Whenchun (587, 620) Southeast Archosaur in the Pavilion
2. Speak to Suma the Learned (521, 684) Northwest Archosaur
3. Speak to Cho Whenchun (587, 620) Southeast Archosaur in the Pavilion
3. Speak to Cho Whenchun (587, 620) Southeast Archosaur in the Pavilion. Squad Leader Only
- Squad Lead Collect Chinese Brush, by Merchant Fei (545, 683) costs 30 000 coins
- Squad Lead Collect Black Ink (Drops from Arboride Dryad, all around Archosaur)
- Partner Collect Painting Canvas, by Merchant Fu (551, 621) costs 30 000 coins
- Partner Collect Ink Pallet (Drops from Frail Blobs East and South of Archosaur)
4. Report to Cho Whenchun (587, 620) Southeast Archosaur in the Pavilion
- Twice for each partner.
5. Speak to Cho Whenchun (587, 620) Southeast Archosaur in the Pavilion
6. Speak to Suma the Learned (521, 684) Northwest Archosaur
7. Report to Cho Whenchun (587, 620) Southeast Archosaur in the Pavilion
- 1 Sweet memory
- 1 Sincerity Pack
-Reward (Exp: Varies SP: Varies)

1. Speak to Rion (467, 560) under Heaven's Tear
- Kill 1 Nightspike Strider (476, 547) to get 1 Daughter of Reese
80000HP and does a debuff to 50% HP and when he hits 20000 he debuffs your max HP to 15%
Easy Method: Go point blank. Nightspike Strider does a fair magic attack but only does 1hp melee damage. The debuff can't kill you unless you let him back away enough to use a ranged magic attack.
- Kill 1 Nightspike Cannibal (475, 567) to get 1 Son of Reese
80000HP Miniboss - No problems found
Easy Method: Go point blank. Nightspike Cannibal does a fair magic attack but only does 1hp melee damage.
2. Report to Rion (467, 560) under Heaven's Tear
3. Report to Reese (292, 424) ?
- 1 Sweet memory
- 1 Sincerity Pack
-Reward (Exp: Varies SP: Varies)

1. Speak to Hsu Hsian (564, 525) South of Hidden Orchid
- Collect 5 Silverwave Soulglaives (Drops from Argenweave Mantises just a little south. 4200 HP - Shared drops)
2. Speak to Hsu Hsian (564, 525) South of Hidden Orchid
- Kill 1 Aegis Tower Disciple (560, 507)
80000HP Miniboss - He does interrupt occasionaly and freezes you in place but that's all. Damage is managable.
Easy Method: Go point blank. Aegis Tower does a fair magic attack but only does 1hp melee damage.
3. Report to White Saintess (559, 506) She appears from the tower that crumbles when boss dies.
- 1 Sweet memory
- 1 Sincerity Pack
-Reward (Exp: Varies SP: Varies)

1. Read Monument of Faith Pillar at (626, 520) at lake southwest of Peach Blossom Grove
- Kill 10 Pedalbiter Batwing in the air above (626, 520) (You get squad kills here)
The Pedalbiter's only have 10000 Hp but BEWARE! They are minibosses and you won't do full damage against them. These mobs aggro at a fair range and as they are quite close together you could pull a lot of aggro if you are not careful. Their persue range is also quite far so kill anything that decides to chase you.
2. Read Monument of Faith Pillar at (626, 520) at lake southwest of Peach Blossom Grove
- Collect 5 Flower of Unity around Monument of Faith Pillar at (626, 520)
3. Harvest Manor of Pearl Pot at (626, 520) at lake southwest of Peach Blossom Grove
- 1 Sweet memory
- 1 Sincerity Pack
-Reward (Exp: Varies SP: Varies)

1. Speak to Sui Irin (619, 727) Allies Camp
- Collect 5 Flowers (Just north over the wall, there is plenty. Partners must collect their own)
2. Speak to Sui Irin (619, 727) Allies Camp
3. Report to Foreign Monk (639, 831) Angler's Village
- Recieve 1 Sparkling Water
4. Speak to Scholar Chang (615, 714) Allies Camp
5. Speak to Sui Irin (619, 727) Allies Camp
6. Speak to Scholar Chang (615, 714) Allies Camp
- 1 Sweet memory
- 1 Sincerity Pack
-Reward (Exp: Varies SP: Varies)